What I Think About Relationships

I think relationships are becoming pointless, meaningless affairs.
People "date" and "go out" with peope simply because they can, and not because they actually have feelings for that person.
People are dating because they want to get laid. Not because they legitimately love each other.
That's the other thing. Sex. Sex is becoming the same thing. People are doing it simply because they can. They think they are ready in teenage years, when they aren't.
I think the only time you should ever have sex before you're 18 is if you TRULY do love that person. Don't do it because you were under the influence, you feel pressured, or because you see nothing wrong with it.
There are consequences and apparently nowadays nobody cares. People are getting pregnant and getting diseases.
Ugh. It's gross.
Granted, I am currently struggling with some of my own similar feelings as others. But that's because I'm in love with someone.

Other people date because it's an activity and it gives them something to do with their time. I think that's wrong.

Also, if you're going to be with someone, be with someone who makes you happy. Not someone who makes you more stressed out than you usually are. Someone who makes your life easier and makes you happy simply by being there with you. Someone you love with everything in you and trust no matter what. Someone who you know is always there for you and will never hurt you. Someone who is worth your time and you LIKE spending your time with. Someone who doesn't make you double think things you normally wouldn't. Someone who doesn't control everything you do/think/say.

Sorry for the rant. It's really relevant to tonight.